According to the Scriptures

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Copyright  2004 Steve Flinchum

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

                                                    CHAPTER ONE                                      FOLLOWERS OF GOD

                                                    CHAPTER TWO                                    FROM THE BEGINNING

                                                    CHAPTER THREE                                   MARRIAGE CUSTOMS IN BIBLE TIMES

                                                    CHAPTER FOUR                                    WHAT JESUS PREACHED

                                                    CHAPTER FIVE                                     THE AUDIENCE

                                                    CHAPTER SIX                                       MORE OF JESUS’ PREACHING

                                                    CHAPTER SEVEN                                  THE PREACHING OF JOHN

                                                    CHAPTER EIGHT                                   A PROTESTANT INVENTION

                                                    CHAPTER NINE                                           WHAT PAUL PREACHED

                                                    CHAPTER TEN                                        GO AND SIN NO MORE

                                                    CHAPTER ELEVEN                                    THE RESPONSIBILITY OF A CHURCH

                                                    CHAPTER TWELVE                                   HOW DID THINGS GET THIS WAY?

PREFACE

Desiring the maximum effectiveness and readability for these pages I feel the need for a few lines here for definition and clarity. First of all, in the title I use the term "the church." I do not refer to any kind of universal church, neither visible nor invisible. A New Testament church is always a local and visible body of born-again and baptized believers with Christ as her head and the Bible as her guide. As we might speak of "the husband" or "the wife" in a generic sense without any allusion to any kind of universal invisible husband or wife, I use the term "the church" in the generic sense in the title.

The picture of a building is employed on the cover as a readily recognizable symbol. Let us remember that the Bible never uses the word "church" to refer to a building but to the congregation.

Given the nature of the subject and title, the use of the scarlet letter "A" in the steeple and windows was irresistible. The use of the steeple in the illustration is not intended as an endorsement of their presence on Baptist meeting-houses. The best we can determine is that the use of steeples or spires on houses of worship originated with their use as objects to attract and please the sex goddesses. If that is so, perhaps it is all the more fitting that it be used as it is in the illustration.

The regard of people for marriage is shaped by their beliefs as to the primary purpose of it. Some have regarded its primary purpose as that of procreation. Many recognize its value to the maintenance of order in society as the primary importance. Others hold the pleasure or security they may be beneficiary of in the highest esteem. In our present day of a pleasure seeking, thrill seeking, throw-away, blame it on someone else society when we are constantly appealed to with "get the cash you deserve now," "return it if you don’t like it," and "tell them you mean business" solicitations, respect for the concept of life-long marriage seems to be at an all-time low. It is only when a right biblical understanding of God’s purpose and intention for marriage is held that marriage can be appreciated with the esteem it is due. God instituted marriage with the intention of using it to teach truths with typology about His chosen nation, about His New Testament churches, about the bride of Christ, and even about salvation. It is hoped that God will use the following pages for the edification of the reader.

CHAPTER ONE

FOLLOWERS OF GOD

As we look at the world around us, ungodliness, immorality, wickedness, and evil greatly abound. That is to be expected, but it should not be so among God’s people. With those who have been made a new creature and saved by God’s grace (and especially those being taught from God’s Word) there should be a clear distinction in the life, actions, and appearance. A seemingly popular attitude among many who do believe that salvation is eternal (and it is) is that a biblical Christian lifestyle is optional or has little importance. Those of us who teach, or believe in and practice, the need of good works and holiness are often assailed with accusations of "legalism," "salvation by works," and other such absurdities.

Proverbs 28:4 says:

They that forsake the law praise the wicked: but such as keep the law contend with them.

Proverbs 28:9 says:

He that turneth away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer shall be abomination.

I believe that the Bible teaches that the true Christian is to practice good works and holiness, not in order to obtain or to keep salvation, but because of salvation and as fruits and evidence of salvation. Good works can never obtain salvation but do give evidence of our love for God who first loved us. 1 John 4:19 says, "We love Him because He first loved us." The fact that some men have tried to treat their wives well because of a fear of consequences and penalty does not destroy the truth that I should be good and faithful to my wife because I love her. Neither does the fact that some believe in good works for the obtaining or keeping of salvation destroy the truth that I should perform good works as a result of love for God. And, it does not mean that I do so for fear of losing salvation.

The book of Ephesians was written to the saints at Ephesus "and to the faithful in Christ Jesus" (Eph.1:1) who are the "us," "we," and "ye" that is referred to in the epistle. Ephesians 1:2-14 says:

2 Grace be to you, and peace, from God our Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ.

3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ:

4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love:

5 Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will,

6 To the praise of the glory of his grace, wherein he hath made us accepted in the beloved.

7 In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace;

8 Wherein he hath abounded toward us in all wisdom and prudence;

9 Having made known unto us the mystery of his will, according to his good pleasure which he hath purposed in himself:

10 That in the dispensation of the fulness of times he might gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven, and which are on earth; even in him:

11 In whom also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestinated according to the purpose of him who worketh all things after the counsel of his own will:

12 That we should be to the praise of his glory, who first trusted in Christ.

13 In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,

14 Which is the earnest of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, unto the praise of his glory.

It is by God’s grace and in Christ that we can stand before God justified. Before the world began, God knew all the sins that His elect would commit, both before and after conversion, and Christ died for each of those sins. Christ’s death was substitutionary, not merely provisional, but substitutionary. Christ died for every sin (before and after conversion) of every one of God’s elect. Acts 15:18 says, "Known unto God are all his works from the beginning of the world." Some display an attitude of presumption that since all of one’s sins have been paid for, it is alright to be reckless in Christian living. Presumptuous sin is a serious matter upon which God does not look lightly. Jesus’ blood is precious and must not be "trodden under foot" and counted as "an unholy thing" (Heb. 10:29). Carefully consider what God’s Word says in Hebrews 10:23-31:

23 Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering; (for he is faithful that promised;)

24 And let us consider one another to provoke unto good works:

25 Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.

26 For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more [no other besides Christ] sacrifice for sins,

27 But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation which shall devour the adversaries.

28 He that despised Moses’ law died without mercy under two or three witnesses:

29 Of how much sorer punishment, suppose ye, shall he be thought worthy, who hath trodden under foot the Son of God, and hath counted the blood of the covenant, wherewith he was sanctified, an unholy thing, and hath done despite unto the Spirit of grace?

30 For we know him that hath said, Vengeance belongeth unto me, I will recompense, saith the Lord. And again, The Lord shall judge his people.

31 It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.

We who have been saved by God’s amazing grace are obligated to appear holy and without blame before men also. In Luke 1:6, speaking of Zacharias and Elisabeth, the Bible says:

And they were both righteous before God, walking in all the commandments and ordinances of the Lord blameless.

Titus 1:7 tells us that "a bishop must be blameless." I think the meaning here of to "be blameless" clearly refers to more than just to possess salvation. Philippians 2:12-15 says:

12 . . . work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.

13 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.

14 Do all things without murmurings and disputings:

15 That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world;

1 Corinthians 7:34 speaks of an unmarried virgin as able to be one who "careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit." It should be our desire to be "holy both in body and spirit." 1 Corinthians 6:20 says:

For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.

We are not our own. The Bible tells those who have been "bought with a price" that "your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost." Romans 7:12 says:

Wherefore the law is holy, and the commandment holy, and just, and good.

1 Peter 1:13-19 says:

13 Wherefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and hope to the end for the grace that is to be brought unto you at the revelation of Jesus Christ;

14 As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance:

15 But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation;

16 Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.

17 And if ye call on the Father, who without respect of persons judgeth according to every man's work, pass the time of your sojourning here in fear:

18 Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers;

19 But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot:

2 Peter 3:11 speaks of "what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness." In Hebrews 10:24 we are instructed to provoke one another unto good works. James 2:20 says:

But wilt thou know, O vain man, that faith without works is dead?

To teach of faith while avoiding or neglecting to teach of holiness is to "deceive you with vain words." The instruction of Ephesians 5:6 to "the faithful" (1:1) is to "Let no man deceive you with vain words." Jude 4 warns of "ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus Christ." Jesus is both Savior and Lord. To accept Him as Savior but not as Lord is to reject the Lord Jesus Christ. Isn’t it so very inconsistent to desire or to profess the righteousness of God while rejecting the holiness of God?

As pointed out before, the book of Ephesians is addressed to "the faithful in Christ Jesus." Ephesians 1:9 says that God has "made known unto us the mystery of his will." Ephesians 2:10 says:

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.

Ephesians 3:9-11 reveals that it is God’s intent that by His churches the manifold wisdom of God is known. Ephesians 3:21 says:

Unto him [God] be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. Amen.

The next verse, Ephesians 4:1, says:

I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called, . . .

The seventeenth verse of that chapter says:

This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind.

In verses 22-24 we are told that if we have heard Christ and have been taught by Him:

22 That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;

23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;

24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.

Actions can speak louder than words. Members of the Lord’s churches are obligated to be ecclesiastically separate from the world’s religion and its practices. Members of the Lord’s churches are also obligated to be morally separate from the ways of the world. That does not necessarily mean total physical separation from the persons, but separation from the ways, actions, looks, life-styles, and morals of the world.

Following the above verses in Ephesians, the first verse of chapter five says, "Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children." Verse 17 says, "Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is." 1 Corinthians 11:1 says, "Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ." That verse introduces the ones below it that teach many things about how God’s people are to behave and look. In those verses we see that there is a God-given divine order of the sexes, with "the man" as "the head of the woman" being symbolic of Christ as head of man. Ephesians 5 leaves no doubt but that the husband and wife and their relationship and behavior towards each other are symbolic of Christ and church. Titus 2:7 teaches that we are to be "In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works." "All things" must surely include our marital behavior.

In considering the previously mentioned instructions from Ephesians 4 to "walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called" and to "henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk," we should be very diligent in the way we conduct our lives. We need to examine all things by the standard of God’s Word and then, by God’s grace, be not only hearers but doers also. Are we showing a pattern of good works in all things? Do our actions and our looks speak so loudly no one can hear what we say? Times sure have changed but God’s Word has not.

Those who persist in an ungodly life give poor evidence of salvation (I John). Professed faith that is without good works and therefore dead (James 2:14-26) gives poor evidence of (Hebrews 11:1), and no biblical reason to expect, a blessed hope. According to Proverbs 28:9 those who reject God’s instructions forfeit the blessed privilege of prayer ("even his prayer shall be abomination"). Proverbs 28:4 says, "They that forsake the law praise the wicked…." When churches tolerate sinful lifestyles in their membership the churches’ prayers are hindered and they praise the wicked. Two of the most prevalent and harmful sins in Baptist churches of our day are adulterous marriages and the spiritual fornication with the world’s religion of "christianized" paganism. Perhaps they are the most fiercely defended and harbored as well. Often examples of the sins of the nation Israel and God’s judgment upon them is preached with warnings that our own country cannot continue to stand as it is without judgment. That is good, but the examples given us of the nation Israel and God’s dealings with it are also valuable for instruction and warning to the Lord’s churches. The relationship of God and Israel as typological to Jesus and His kind of church is seen throughout the Bible. Disobedient churches can cease to exist as true churches just as surely as nations can fall. The following pages deal with the subject of divorce and remarriage in a general way at first and more particularly with the obligation of Baptist churches in regard to it in the later pages. To those who have given less thought and study to the subject, I beg your patience and understanding that to limit the scope of this book would be to limit its effect and usefulness and would necessitate additional volumes. It is my hope that our young folks will be taught the scripture truths of marriage that they may enjoy the blessings of a God-honoring marriage and be spared the heartache of divorce. It is my hope that those considering divorce or re-marriage will stop and consider what God says about it and submit to His way. It is my hope that with a scriptural understanding and sense of value of "what God hath joined" that marriages will be strengthened for our good and God’s glory. It is my sincere heart’s desire and prayer to God that His churches will recognize their obligation to declare the whole counsel of the Bible in its preaching and consistent practice in regard to this subject. If Baptist churches will declare the whole counsel in the matter, marriages will be strengthened, homes will be blessed, and churches will be blessed. After more than a century of compromise and neglect in the matter, churches are now full of the world’s doctrine concerning the matter and the truth seems so foreign that few will even consider it. It is time that true Baptists stop forsaking the law of God’s word and cease their praise of the wicked (Proverbs 28:4) and "Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent" (Revelation 2:5).

CHAPTER TWO

FROM THE BEGINNING

The first two chapters of our Bible make it clear that the joining of one man and one woman in a life-long union known as marriage is original with God. It is not something that developed or came about over a period of time or through process of civilization. It was God’s intent from the beginning and He gave the institution of family, consisting of husband and wife in its simplest form, as the basic and essential building block of all society and civilization. It should be no surprise that as families crumble, so go the churches, the neighborhoods, the schools, and nation. The fact of the family being the basic building block of any civilization is often repeated by historians and anthropologists, whether they believe in God or not. Recognizing such importance, we should place high priority on the maintenance of marriage as God intends it to be. Those who believe the Bible recognize the fact that it was God who instituted the marrying of a man and a woman, and that He did so with the first man and woman on earth. Genesis 2:24 says:

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Jesus Himself credited God with speaking those words in Matthew 19:4-5. God could have left mankind to multiply like the animals without marriage, but He had a higher standard for the human race. It was God’s plan that the marriage of man and woman be an example and type that He would use many times in scripture in revealing truth of Himself and His will to His people. God chose the nation Israel "to be a special people unto himself, above all people that are upon the face of the earth" (Deuteronomy 7:6-7; 14:2). The Old Testament records many accounts of the acts of that chosen people and God’s relationship and dealings with them. God has written and preserved those accounts to use them in the New Testament to teach us and to reveal truth about Himself and His will for His people and churches. I Corinthians 10:11 says:

Now all these things happened unto them for ensamples: and they are written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the world are come.

Romans 9 uses many examples from the Old Testament to teach of God’s sovereignty and election unto salvation for "Even us, whom he hath called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles." Many are the examples and types in the Old Testament that teach us New Testament church truths. So it is with marriage. In Romans 7 marriage is used as an example to teach us the wonderful truth that by Christ’s death we are freed from the bondage of sin. All throughout the New Testament the institution of marriage, as God intended it, is used as typology to teach us about Jesus and His relationship with His churches and bride to be. Ephesians 5:22-33 is one example. Therefore it is of utmost importance that God’s people, and especially His churches, uphold the truth of marriage that His word be not blasphemed.

CHAPTER THREE

MARRIAGE CUSTOMS IN BIBLE TIMES

Various wedding customs have developed in different times and places and many seem to have been derived from Bible examples. In all cases there are two elements that must be considered essential in constituting a marriage. There must be the vowing of vows and then the consummation or coming together of husband and wife. In order to properly understand the teachings of Jesus about marriage it is highly profitable to consider what the marriage customs were in the time He spoke and to discern who His immediate recipients of those words were. All we really need to know about the manners and customs of the time can be gleaned from the Bible itself. Among the Jewish people of Bible times the selection or matching of bride and groom was often made by the parents. It was Abraham that selected a wife for his son Isaac (Genesis 24:3-4). The father of Rebekah consented (v.51) and she accepted the proposal (v.58). God, the Father of Adam and Eve, chose them for each other (Genesis 2:22-25) and pronounced them husband and wife. Genesis 38:6 tells us that "Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, whose name was Tamar." Exodus 2:21 tells us that Zipporah’s father "gave Moses Zipporah his daughter." In Genesis 28 Isaac gave his son Jacob some specific instructions about choosing a wife while leaving the choice of the specific woman up to Jacob. In verses 18-20 of chapter 29 we see Jacob’s choice of Rachel and the consent of Laban. Often the actual choice of the particular mate might have been made by those marrying, much like it is with us today, but the consent and blessing of the parents was to be sought. No doubt the custom today of giving the bride at a wedding originates from these examples.

A good example of some of the marriage customs of the Jewish people of the time Jesus was born is found in Matthew 1:18-25. After the prospective bride and groom had been selected they would become espoused to each other. There would be a meeting of the prospective bride and groom with their parents or family when vows would be made and contracts signed. From that time the two were legally bound, "espoused," as husband and wife (v. 19-20). The marriage was usually not consummated at that time and typically might be as much as a year later. During that time the two were legally bound as husband and wife. The wife would spend that time making herself ready for the wedding, maybe not knowing the exact time of the wedding. Before Jesus ascended He espoused Himself to His kind of churches and His churches are spoken of as His wife throughout the New Testament. The wedding of Christ, the Bridegroom, to His bride is yet to be as seen in Revelation 19:7:

Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honor to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready.

The members of the Lord’s churches are to be making themselves ready for the wedding and His imminent return. It was during the time that "Mary was espoused to Joseph, before they came together" that "she was found with child of the Holy Ghost." As a result, "Joseph her husband . . . was minded to put her away." Joseph was considering divorce because it seemed to him that his wife had been unfaithful to him. If Mary’s being found with child had not been of the Holy Ghost, or of himself, he would have had scriptural grounds for divorce and would then be free from any obligation to her. The marriage had not yet been consummated. It is needful that the members of Jesus’ churches be mindful that the wedding of the Lamb and His bride has not yet taken place and that those who participate with false religion are in danger of being "put away" for their unfaithfulness. This is not to say that their salvation is lost but that they will not be part of the bride. All the saved will be there and will rejoice at the marriage but some will be guests, not bride (Revelation 19:6-7). They may be saved yet so as by fire, having their works burned up and suffering loss of reward.

After the espousal the groom would usually return to his father’s house and prepare a place for his wife. When the time for the marriage came the groom would go for his bride who was to be ready at any time (Matthew 25:1-13). The groom, the bride, and the whole party would then go to the house of the groom’s father for a feast as in Matthew 22:2-3 and John 2:1-11. The bride and groom would then go into their own room and the marriage would be consummated. From that moment on the two were become one flesh until separated by death. It was in accord with these terms and conditions that Jesus spoke when He taught on the subject to the Jewish people. The marital customs and manners of the time and place were foreordained of God so they might be used as a figure to teach New Testament truths.

CHAPTER FOUR

WHAT JESUS PREACHED

The first of Jesus’ teaching on marriage and divorce is found in the middle of His "Sermon on the Mount" recorded in Matthew 5:31-32. In those verses Jesus said:

31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:

32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

On that occasion the majority, if not the entirety, of Jesus’ audience were Jewish people. It is to be expected that the terms and definitions Jesus used there were those familiar to the hearers and in accord with the laws, manners, and customs of the Jews. Matthew was a Jew writing to Jewish readers. With this perspective, and remembering the things we learned from Matthew chapter 1, written by the same Matthew, let us consider the truths taught by our Lord. Let the scriptures interpret the scriptures. By ignoring the fact that after a couple was "espoused" they were considered and called "husband" and "wife" (Matthew 18-20) even though the wedding had not yet taken place, many teachers and commentators have hypnotized their followers into the wishful thinking that the words "fornication" and "adultery" are used interchangeably and synonymously in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9. The fact that both words are used in the same sentence on both occasions shows there is a difference. The words in the Greek New Testament had definitions different from the other and the words today in English have the same distinction. Mark 7:21, 1 Corinthians 6:9, and Galatians 5:19 all use both words in a way that shows there to be an obvious difference. Properly used, fornication refers to what is committed by an unmarried person and adultery refers to that committed by a married person. Those are the common meanings of the words even today until someone tries to find some loophole out of an unhappy marriage. Some have argued that the word fornication in the Greek (porneia) could be used for all manner of sexual uncleanness and therefore include adultery, and so an exception is given in Matthew whereby one can divorce, remarry, and go on his merry way in innocence. The fact that a word can mean something does not mean that that meaning should be forced upon a verse when the normal meaning makes more sense and certainly not if it would set the statement in contradiction to the rest of the Bible. From the perspective that Jesus spoke and that Matthew wrote, the only time that a "wife" could be guilty of "fornication" is either before espousal or that period of time between when she and her "husband" were "espoused" but "before they came together" after marriage. According to Jesus’ teaching, once the vows had been said and the couple espoused, the only way out of the marriage wherein one would be free to marry another was when the spouse had been found guilty of fornication before the marriage was consummated. If the transgression occurred after the couple was living together, it was called adultery. The two would have then become one in such a way that they could never again be twain. One could become one again if parted from the other by death but they could never be two separate persons without obligation one to the other. There is no allowance for divorce in the Bible (for adultery or otherwise) in the sense that the union can be dissolved after the marriage has been consummated. Marriage is "for better or for worse" and sometimes it is "worse." Sometimes it may be so bad that divorce will come regardless of ones resistance or opposition to it, but that does not dissolve the union. The "writing of divorcement" Jesus referred to in Matthew 5:31 was apparently in reference to Deuteronomy 24:1-2 which says:

1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.

2 And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man’s wife.

Those verses may deal with some discovery that is made just prior to, or at, the consummation of the marriage. Whatever the disfavor and "uncleanness" spoken of in that verse was, we can know that it was neither fornication nor adultery because according to chapter 22, verses 20-24, those guilty of either were to be stoned to death. If stoning was the order given in chapter 22 for the purpose of "so shalt thou put evil away from among you," why would the Bible say, on the next page in chapter 24, that "she may go and be another man’s wife"? Verses 13-21 of chapter 22 show that "If any man take a wife, and go in unto her" (v. 13) she must either be proven to have been unfaithful and in consequence stoned to death, or else "he may not put her away all his days" (v. 19).

CHAPTER FIVE

THE AUDIENCE

Even in the day that Jesus taught, the evidence suggests that among the majority of the religious Jews, the only divorce whereby marriage to another was acceptable was divorce occurring during the time between espousal and marriage. Some of the religious leaders of that time seem to have taken some liberty in re-interpreting and application of the laws of divorce to suit their own adulterous hearts. It should be no surprise that the Sadducees would be in error on the subject since, as Acts 23:8 tells us, "the Sadducees say that there is no resurrection, neither angel, nor spirit." Josephus, who lived from A.D. 37-c.100, explains, "But the doctrine of the Sadducees is this: That souls die with the bodies . . . " (The Antiquities of the Jews, Book 18, chapter 1). In The Wars of the Jews, Book 2, chapter 8, Josephus wrote that the Sadducees "suppose that God is not concerned in our doing or not doing what is evil; and they say, that to act what is good, or what is evil, is at men’s own choice, and that the one or the other belongs so to every one, that they may act as they please." Speaking of the doctrine of the Sadducees in The Antiquities of the Jews, Book 18, chapter 1, Josephus wrote, " . . . but this doctrine is received but by a few, yet by those still of the greatest dignity; . . . they addict themselves to the notions of the Pharisees, because the multitude would not otherwise bear them." The beliefs of the Pharisees were more in line with the thought of the common people of the Jewish religion. In the same book and chapter, Josephus wrote briefly about the Pharisees’ belief in resurrection, reward, punishment, and their conscientious conduct and following of the law. He closed with saying:

. . . on account of which doctrines, they are able greatly to persuade the body of the people; and whatsoever they do about divine worship, prayers, and sacrifices, they perform them according to their direction; insomuch that the cities gave great attestations to them on account of their entire virtuous conduct, both in the actions of their lives and their discourses also.

Paying more attention to Jesus’ rebuke of the Pharisees than to the total picture of what the Bible tells us of them has given most of us a distorted image of the Pharisees. The very name "Pharisee" has come to be often used as a synonym for "hypocrite" but that is a distorted image. Some newer dictionaries may give "hypocrite" as a secondary meaning but the original and proper meaning is "a separatist" (Strong’s #5330). No doubt there were probably subdivisions within the sect with some being less devout but I believe that for the most part the Pharisees were far more in line with the beliefs and practice of the common people of the Jewish religion than they are usually credited with. True it is that there were Pharisees in the mob that arrested Jesus (John 18:3) but are there not religious people today, even some who use the name of Baptist, who would cry for His crucifixion if He were with us now? True it is that Jesus had much sharp rebuke for the Pharisees’ hypocrisy and their devotion to tradition more than to God’s word, but what if Jesus were to be preaching next Lord’s Day in our Independent Sovereign Grace Landmark Baptist Churches? In Luke 12:1 Jesus warned His disciples, "Beware ye of the leaven of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy." That is still good advice for His disciples. What would He have to say about churches letting what "other churches like ours" do dictate practice rather than sincerely seeking God’s will? What would He say to churches campaigning for the posting of the Ten Commandments but filling the restaurants and Wal-Mart stores on the Lord’s Day? What would Jesus say about churches condemning the abomination of homosexuality (which they should) while defending the abomination of women dressing like men? (Deuteronomy 22:5) What would Jesus say about adultery in the church?

In Mark 18:9-14 Jesus spoke the parable of the Pharisee who "prayed thus with himself" and the publican who prayed, "God be merciful to me a sinner." Verse 9 says that Jesus "spake this parable unto certain which trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and despised others." In Matthew 5:20 Jesus declared:

For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.

Jesus was recognizing the high standard of holiness of the Pharisees but teaching that it was not good enough for salvation. Only by the imputed righteousness of Christ can anyone be saved. "If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit" (Galatians 5:25). Regardless of how religious, sincere, conscientious, and righteous the Pharisees may have been, without salvation that is by grace through faith in Christ, their righteousness was "as filthy rags." And so it is with you and me. Our salvation does not take away the need for a sincere, conscientious, righteous, religious life. What is said in John 9:16 shows that there were differing opinions of Jesus among the Pharisees:

Therefore said some of the Pharisees, This man is not of God, because he keepeth not the Sabbath day. Others said, How can a man that is a sinner do such miracles? And there was a division among them.

The previously quoted Josephus claimed to be a Pharisee and son of a Pharisee saying that at nineteen years old he "began to conduct myself according to the rules of the sect of the Pharisees." His opinion of Jesus was this:

Now there was about this time Jesus, a wise man, if it be lawful to call him a man, for he was a doer of wonderful works — a teacher of such men as receive the truth with pleasure. He drew over to him both many of the Jews, and many of the Gentiles. He was [the] Christ; and when Pilate, at the suggestion of the principal men amongst us, had condemned him to the cross, those that loved him at the first did not forsake him, for he appeared to them alive again the third day, as the divine prophets had foretold these and ten thousand other things concerning him; and the tribe of Christians, so named from him, are not extinct at this day. (The Antiquities of the Jews, Book 18, chapter 3).

Nicodemus, "a ruler of the Jews" who came to Jesus in John 3 was a Pharisee (v. 1). He may have been lost at the time but later in John 7:50 we find him defending Jesus and in John 19:38-39 we read that Nicodemus was one of those who buried the body of Jesus.

The point I wish to make here is that although there was the leaven of hypocrisy among the Pharisees (Luke 12:1), there were times when they tried to trick Jesus and even kill Him, and many were without salvation, there were also those who were friendly to Him and were very sincere about following God’s law. They were well studied in the law and many had great respect for Jesus’ teaching. With these things in mind we can gain a clearer understanding of the things Jesus taught them. Simon, in Luke 7:36-50, was a Pharisee who desired Jesus to be a guest in his home. In Luke 11:37 Jesus was guest in another Pharisee’s home. In Luke 13:31 "certain of the Pharisees" were trying to protect Jesus and save His life. In Luke 14 Jesus is seen in "the house of one of the chief Pharisees" eating, healing, and teaching. We should not allow the hypocrisy that Jesus exposed among the Pharisees discredit their knowledge of the law. It is important to recognize that when the Bible says, "some" of them, it means some of them, not all of them. Jesus spoke quite harshly at times to some of the Jews. There were some of the Jews that tried to kill Him. There were also some of the Jews who were His closest friends and followers. Jesus was a Jew Himself and practiced as one. He never renounced being a Jew nor instructed others to. Just as Jesus’ criticism of some and many of the Jews does not discredit being a Jew, neither does His criticism of some and many of the Pharisees discredit all who were Pharisees. In Matthew 23:1-3, while teaching His disciples, Jesus put His approval on the Pharisees’ teachings saying:

All therefore whatsoever they bid you observe, that observe and do; but do not ye after their works: for they say, and do not.

It is important that our practice be guided by sound doctrine or else our doctrine soon becomes leavened with the lusts of the flesh. In Acts 23:6 Paul unashamedly declared, "I am a Pharisee." Paul did not say that he had only been a Pharisee, or merely that he had been raised as one. Paul never renounced being a Pharisee but said, "I am a Pharisee." After hearing Paul’s defense the scribes of the Pharisees announced, "We find no evil in this man" (v. 9). In Acts 5:34 a Pharisee named Gamaliel is said to have been "a doctor of the law, had in reputation among all the people." In Acts 22:3 Paul said he was "brought up in this city at the feet of Gamaliel, and taught according to the perfect manner of the law of the fathers, and was zealous toward God, as ye all are this day." After God saved him Paul continued to be as zealous and law abiding as ever. After his conversion his zeal was guided by truth. He did not "throw the baby out with the bath-water." Knowledge of salvation by grace does not warrant discarding holiness and good works. In Acts 26:4-5 Paul claimed the Pharisees to be "the most straitest sect" of the Jewish religion:

4 My manner of life from my youth, which was at the first among mine own nation at Jerusalem, know all the Jews;

5 Which knew me from the beginning, if they would testify, that after the most straitest sect of our religion I lived a Pharisee.

In Philippians 3:5 Paul claimed to have been "an Hebrew of the Hebrews; as touching the law, a Pharisee." With such a background, we will have to say that Paul was well qualified to, as in Romans 7:1, "speak to them that know the law." Paul wrote some very important things about our subject of marriage there in Romans 7 that we will look at later.

CHAPTER SIX

MORE OF JESUS’ PREACHING

Let us consider Jesus’ teaching concerning marriage and divorce as recorded in Matthew 19:3-9:

3 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?

4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,

5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?

8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.

9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

We are told in these verses that the reason for the Pharisees’ question was "tempting him" (Jesus). The meaning of the word tempting as used here is testing. We may sometimes speak of tempting someone with a meaning of causing them to think seriously about doing wrong, or tricking them into trouble but that is not what is meant here. That we are told they were tempting Him implies success—that it was actually being done. Jesus was never caused to consider doing wrong nor ever enticed to evil. Hebrews 4:15 tells us He "was in all points tempted [tested] like as we are, yet without sin." It may be that their motive was as in John 8:6 when some scribes and Pharisees brought the woman taken in adultery. It is said there that they were "tempting him, that they might have to accuse him." It may also be that the motive in Matthew 19 was merely to test Him for the sincere purpose of discerning whether He was a true prophet or a false prophet. I suspect it was the latter and possibly with the secondary purpose of rebuking the Sadducees and the looser ones of their own sect who had stretched and distorted the truth of the subject. Asking about the lawfulness of "for every cause" may hint of that. Either way, it does not change the truth of Jesus’ answer. Considering the facts presented here in the previous pages regarding the Pharisees’ background and attitude toward the law, it is most reasonable to believe that their questions concerning putting away one’s wife were asked in the context of occurring between the espousal and the wedding. They recognized the seriousness of the vows that were made at the time of espousal. Although the Pharisees were very conscientious about the keeping of the law, there was a strong tendency among some of them to place more importance on the laws as developed through tradition than upon scripture. Thus the follow-up question, "Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement?" Jesus corrected that Moses did not command it but that he suffered it. In the account given by Mark (chapter 10) the phrase, "for every cause" is not included in the Pharisees’ question. Also in that account it was Jesus who asked them, "What did Moses command you?" and the Pharisees replied that "Moses suffered" a bill of divorcement. The same location is described in both accounts and by the description of the following events in each case it would seem that both Matthew and Mark wrote of the same day. Perhaps there were two different encounters with different groups of Pharisees that day. That Moses suffered it does not mean that he nor God approved of it. Acts 14:16 speaks of God "Who in times past suffered all nations to walk in their own ways." That did not make them right or without blame in walking their own ways and their own ways were not without consequence. And, it certainly does not mean that we, today, whom God has saved, taught and given a Bible full of examples, may walk in our own way without consequence. Acts 17:30 says:

And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commandeth all men every where to repent:

Acts 13:18, speaking of God and Israel, says:

And about the time of forty years suffered he their manners in the wilderness.

Many of their manners in the wilderness that God suffered did not honor God and did not cause them to be blessed. Many were destroyed because of those manners and that for "ensamples: and they are written for our admonition" (1 Corinthians 10:1-12). What Moses had suffered was because of the hardness of their hearts. Romans 2:5 warns of what is to be expected for hardness of heart:

But after thy hardness and impenitent heart treasurest up unto thyself wrath against the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God;

In Jesus’ New Testament teachings He has called for a higher standard of holiness than ever for His followers. Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 19:9 and in Matthew 5:32 is clear that the only exception wherein a man can divorce his wife and either of them be free to marry another is fornication. The only time that a wife can commit fornication is between the time the vows are said, when the two are pronounced husband and wife, and the consummation of the marriage. Before the vows, she would not be a wife. After the consummation, what would have before been fornication would then be adultery. No such exception is given for adultery. In Mark 10:12 we have an additional statement made by Jesus on the subject:

And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.

Mark says this was when "in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter." The unique statement of Mark 10:12 ("if a woman shall put away her husband . . .") demonstrates the aspect of the Gospel of Mark being written from a Christian Roman perspective, addressing Romans, because among the Jews a woman would not be able to put away her husband. There was no need to make the statement to the Pharisees or to the Jews. Similarly, the exception given uniquely in Matthew is written by a Jew from a Jewish perspective to Jewish recipients. The exception refers to an act committed or discovered after espousal but before coming together, therefore being relevant only to Jewish custom. With the absence of any period of espousal in Gentile marriage customs and therefore little likelihood of a divorce occurring between the vows and the consummation, there was no exception given but that by Matthew. According to Jesus’ teaching, divorce, even for the cause of adultery, does not dissolve a marriage. A divorce that occurs after marriage is only a legal separation -- those who have been joined together as one can never again be twain. The scriptural reaction for one who has been betrayed by husband or wife is forgiveness and patient pursuit of reconciliation. If we are to forgive a brother or a neighbor who trespasses against us should it not be so much the more for the one we are married to? If we are to love our enemies then so much the more we must love the one whom we have vowed before God and man to love until parted by death. If it is right to help a stranger then it is surely right to try to restore one’s marriage partner. Should one not be as longsuffering with an erring husband or wife as with an erring child? All too often the reaction is driven by anger and embarrassment of "feeling like a fool" or fear of "looking like a fool." Hurt, distrust and dissatisfaction are understandable but one can so easily become consumed with the desire to "get even" or "make them sorry" and "just want it to be over," that rational thinking is abandoned. Selfishness, pride, and revenge are not Christian characteristics. Often close friends and family sympathize and share the same feelings, and encourage divorce when it could be avoided. When divorce cannot be avoided, the only scriptural options are to "remain unmarried, or be reconciled" (1Corinthians 7:11). An example of divorce is seen in the relationship of God and the nation Israel. In Isaiah 54:5 God claimed to be a husband to Israel:

For thy maker is thine husband; the LORD of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.

Exodus 24 tells of that marriage and Ezekiel refers to it in Ezekiel 16:8. After many repeated warnings and pleadings from God through the prophets and years of longsuffering God divorced Israel. In Jeremiah 3:7-8 God said:

And I said after she had done all these things, Turn thou unto me. But she returned not. And her treacherous sister Judah saw it.

And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.

Apparently the divorce did not end the relationship. The fellowship was broken but reconciliation was still pleaded for. In verse 12 of Jeremiah 3, God said:

Go and proclaim these words toward the north, and say, Return, thou backsliding Israel, saith the LORD; and I will not cause mine anger to fall upon you: for I am merciful, saith the LORD, and I will not keep anger for ever.

And in verse 14:

Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD; for I am married unto you: and I will take you one of a city, and two of a family, and will bring you to Zion:

Even after the divorce, God still said, "I am married unto you." That "wife" has experienced many sorrows and persecutions as a result of disobedience and unfaithfulness but restoration is in God’s plan. Some have mistakenly imagined that God has divorced Israel to marry a "Gentile church" but that cannot be. The bride that is to consist of the faithful from among Jesus’ New Testament congregations is to be married to the Lamb, God’s Son. Some have even imagined that God has remarried, joining Himself to America. There certainly is no scriptural support for that. A right understanding of Bible prophecy demonstrates that it has ever been, and continues to be, God’s plan to restore Israel to himself. God has never, and will never, take another "wife." The nation Israel has never, and will never be at liberty to join herself to another god without being guilty of spiritual adultery. And it would continue to be adultery for the duration of the union. If there has ever been just grounds for divorce, God had it. If there has ever been an "innocent party" it was God. God has set us an example--divorce does not end a marriage.

According to Luke 16:18 divorce and remarriage is adultery. In that verse Jesus said, "Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery." In Romans 13:8-12 adultery is referred to as one of the "works of darkness" that are to be "cast off." 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 teaches us that "neither fornicators . . . nor adulterers . . . shall inherit the kingdom of God." Revelation 22:15 says, "For without are . . . whoremongers. . . ." Ephesians 5:5-9 says "no whoremonger . . . hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God."

It is clear that Jesus, the first pastor of the first Baptist church, taught that remarriage during the lifetime of the divorced partner is adultery. Nowhere in Jesus’ teaching and nowhere in the New Testament can we find a distinction made between divorce/remarriage and "cheating," slipping around, shacking up etc. in that one is "black" adultery and the other is "white" adultery. Let us pray that God will grant the courage and love for truth to pastors and churches today to teach the same. Many divorces and the chaos that often follows could be prevented if the Lord’s churches would return to declaring the whole counsel of God. Left without scriptural support, the "innocent party" argument is left largely dependent upon it’s appeal to the emotions and to the flesh. Does innocence give one the right to do what is wrong? The truth is to be found in God’s words, not in human emotions.

CHAPTER SEVEN

THE PREACHING OF JOHN

Let us study what the first Baptist preacher, John the Baptist, had to say in Mark 6:17-18:

17 For Herod himself had sent forth and laid hold upon John, and bound him in prison for Herodias’ sake, his brother Philip’s wife: for he had married her.

18 For John had said unto Herod, It is not lawful for thee to have thy brother’s wife.

A lot is said in those two verses. Speaking of Herod and Herodias, verse 17 says "he had married her" but the same verse insists that Herodias was still Herod’s "brother Philip’s wife." John, the Baptist preacher, told Herod, "It is not lawful for thee to have thy brother’s wife" (verse 18). John was the son of a priest and his mother was a descendant of Aaron, Moses’ brother (Luke 1:5). John’s parents "were both righteous before God, walking in all the commandments and ordinances of the Lord blameless" (Luke 1:6). John "was a man sent from God" (John 1:6) to baptize, preparing the members for the first church Jesus organized. John should have known as well as anyone what is lawful, and he said, "It is not lawful." John was aware of the divorce that had taken place and the marriage that had followed but he insisted that Herodias was "thy brother’s wife." Josephus, the historian, made mention of the case in The Antiquities of the Jews, Book 18, chapter 5:

. . Herodias, their sister, was married to Herod [Philip], the son of Herod the Great, who was born of Mariamne, the daughter of Simon the high priest, who had a daughter, Salome; after whose birth Herodias took upon her to confound the laws of our country, and divorce herself from her husband while he was alive, and was married to Herod [Antipas], her husband’s brother by the father’s side; he was tetrarch of Galilee;

Some may argue that Josephus referred only to the divorce being obtained by a woman in his statement that she "took upon her to confound the laws of our country," but a careful study of the statement shows it is most probable that, just as it sounds, he was referring to both the divorce and the marriage. John’s message was not well received by the guilty but they knew he had spoken the truth (Mark 6:20). John did not just say that it was unlawful for Herod to marry Herodias, but now that it has happened we have to accept it. John preached that it was not lawful for him "to have" Herodias because it is not just the act of marrying that is adultery but the adultery continues for as long as the marriage continues or until the previous spouse dies. Some today teach that divorce and remarriage is adultery but that it does not continue to be so. They say that adultery is committed by remarrying but refuse to admit that those who remarried live in adultery. I do not think John would agree with them. John believed that it was wrong that Herod had married another man’s wife and that it was "not lawful" for him "to have" her because she was still another man’s wife. He would continue "to have" her for as long as he had her and it would continue to be "not lawful" for as long as he did. If Herod and Herodias had made a profession of faith, would John have then approved of their union? If time went by and the couple had children, would John have judged differently? If Herod and Herodias had acknowledged their guilt and expressed sorrow that it had happened, would John have been willing to baptize them or would he insist on "fruits meet for repentance" (Matthew 3:7-8)? Repentance is not merely an acknowledging of guilt and expression of sorrow. Repentance is a turning from something and requires the discontinuance or forsaking of that which is being repented of. It is clear that John the Baptist believed that those who divorce and remarry live in continual habitual adultery. The truth has not changed but many Baptists have. When did it happen, and why?

CHAPTER EIGHT

A PROTESTANT INVENTION

The beliefs that I have shown to be taught by Jesus and John seem to have been held pretty much universally by all of professing Christendom, both by the true churches and the irregulars and Catholics, up until after the sixteenth century. About the time of the reformation, a Roman Catholic monk named Erasmus theorized a supposed liberty for the innocent party to remarry. Encyclopedia Britannica [1957] describes Erasmus as "the greatest humanist of the Renaissance" and says his "life was spent in vindicating the dignity and liberty of the human spirit." Erasmus’ theory found very little acceptance within the Catholic Church. Remember that it was in response to the Pope’s refusal to annul the marriage of King Henry VIII so that he could legally marry Anne Boleyn, that the Church of England came to be. There was much inconsistency with them on the subject then as there is now but the official teaching of the Roman Catholic Church continues to be that marriage is indissoluble. They may sometimes practice inconsistently such as annulling a marriage with the allegation that it was not a "Christian marriage," but officially they still refuse to recognize divorce as a way in which a marriage can be dissolved. Notice the following article published by Catholic World News, July 7, 2000:

VATICAN (CWNews.com)—The president of the Pontifical Council for the Interpretation of Legislative Texts has disclosed that the Vatican issued a new statement on the status of Catholics who are divorced and remarried because there is "a great deal of confusion on the subject."

Archbishop Julian Herranz, whose Council reaffirmed the teaching that divorced and remarried Catholics should not receive the Eucharist, told the Roman news agency I Media that the new statement was required because some Catholics had "badly interpreted" a particular article in Canon Law. He referred to Canon 915, which stipulates that Catholics "who obstinately persist in grave sin, should not be admitted to Holy Communion."

Because of the widespread confusion over whether or not that law pertained to divorced and remarried Catholics, the archbishop explained, the Pontifical Council concluded that the proper interpretation of the law should be laid out "in juridical terms, according to our competence."

Archbishop Herranz observed that the confusion over the status of divorced and remarried Catholics included the widespread impression that these people are excommunicated. They are not, he said. He continued: "We must distinguish between those who are outside the Church, because they are excommunicated, and those who— as with those who are divorced and remarried—remain sons of the Church, and are invited to participate at Mass, and to take part in parish activities, even if they cannot receive Communion." The archbishop said that there are two reasons for the prohibition against Communion for those who are divorced and remarried. The first is the imperative to preserve the integrity of the Eucharist, by excluding those who are in a state of sin. The second is to uphold the Church’s firm teaching that marriage is indissoluble. The Church cannot accept remarriage, he reasoned, without accepting the notion that a first marriage can be dissolved.

"It is not that the Church has no mercy" toward those who are divorced and remarried, Archbishop Herranz declared. Rather, the Church follows the example of Christ, "who pardons the adulterous woman in the Gospel, and tells her, ‘Go and sin no more.’ Christ does not justify adultery, even as he pardons this woman."

By the same token, the archbishop concluded, the Church cannot justify remarriage for Catholics who are, in the eyes of God and of the Church, already engaged in a Christian marriage to another spouse. Archbishop Herranz cautioned against the belief that "if a majority of people think that the truth does not apply, then that truth no longer exists." In the end, he said, "But a law that comes from God can not be changed."

Erasmus’ humanistic theology and his loyalty to the Catholic Church put him greatly at odds with the Reformers, but many of them readily endorsed his ideas about divorce and remarriage, and the influence of those ideas have grown along with the Protestant denominations. Many Baptists held strictly to the teachings of Jesus and John on the subject up through most of the nineteenth century. In the last century they have been greatly infected with Protestant influence in the matter. The Amish and the Mennonites have kept themselves separate from the rest of the world and most of them still hold the same true doctrine of Jesus and John about divorce and remarriage. I have before me a Mennonite "Adult Sunday School Lessons" quarterly, published by Christian Light Publications, Inc. for March, April, and May, 1998. The lesson for May 17 is titled "Marriage and Divorce" and has this to say:

. . . To interpret the exception [Matthew 19:9] to mean marital unfaithfulness is to make the Scriptures contradict themselves. If marital unfaithfulness was intended, then why did not Jesus use the word adultery? Jesus did not use words loosely or carelessly.

. . . Some have argued that divorce is the same as death. The Bible does not say that. Others have said that once the remarriage has been confessed as adultery and forgiven, the couple can now remain together. That makes adultery only an act and not a continuing sinful relationship. Is marriage only an act and not a continuing right relationship?

It is important to note that Jesus’ words "committeth adultery" are present continuous action verbs in each of the Gospels. This indicates that sin continues so long as the relationship continues. Only once did Jesus use a one-time past-action verb in relation to committing adultery: "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart" (Matthew 5:28).

I know of no one who would say, if a man steals a car and gets converted, the car is now his. Nor that a man under the influence of alcohol who gets converted can remain under such influence as a Christian. Yet a difference is made in the case of a man stealing another man’s wife. Is such handling of Scripture not under God’s judgment?

One myth that has been propagated by the Protestant theologians is that when adultery or desertion is committed by a spouse it is evidence of their being spiritually dead and thus the innocent party is free. Such a belief requires much imaginative twisting of the Bible to try to support it. Some have taught that when one breaks the marriage vow by committing adultery that the marriage, being a covenant, is broken, thus causing the innocent party to be no longer bound to the covenant. That may sound soothing to the flesh, but it requires total disregard for what the Bible says as well as common sense. If it were true that the breaking of the marriage covenant dissolves the marriage, then what if one’s spouse commits adultery without one being aware of it? Is there not a great danger that the "innocent party" may be guilty of committing adultery, unknowingly, with the one they thought they were married to? What if the innocent party wishes to forgive, must the couple remarry if they are to continue as husband and wife? If the rule does not apply in every case, then how do we know when it does and does not? Of course the Bible does not give any guidelines for such a situation because it is a false presumption that is totally inconsistent with the clear teaching of the Bible. Various other interpretations have been made of the teachings of Jesus and of John, but if they are inconsistent with the rest of the New Testament they must be considered false. We must let scripture interpret scripture and "let God be true" even if it makes "every man a liar" (Romans 3:4).

CHAPTER NINE

WHAT PAUL PREACHED

Paul wrote a lot about marriage in the New Testament. Paul wrote more than half the New Testament. What he wrote cannot be merely discounted as one man’s opinion because what Paul wrote was the very words of God written by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit. Remember Paul’s knowledge of the law. In Acts 22:3 he spoke of having been "taught according to the perfect manner of the law of the fathers." In Acts 26:4-5 Paul noted that his manner of life from his youth had been "after the most straitest sect of our religion." In Romans 7 Paul made some very clear and strong statements about marriage, using it as an example and illustration in regard to salvation. Paul, being well educated in the law, said, "I speak to them that know the law" (v. 1). Romans 7:1-4 says:

1 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?

2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.

3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.

4 Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be married to another, even to him who is raised from the dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God.

According to these verses the divorced and remarried woman "shall be called an adulteress" for as long as she "be married to another man" and her first husband is still living. This totally agrees with John’s response to Herod’s adulterous marriage with Philip’s wife. John declared that it was "not lawful" for Herod "to have" the woman he had married because she was still "Philip’s wife" and she would be Philip’s wife for as long as Philip lived. These verses in Romans 7 totally agree with Jesus’ teachings as I have presented them here in previous pages. To interpret what Jesus taught in any other way sets His words in conflict with these verses. If there were any exceptions to be allowed for, Paul would not have dared use the example he did in Romans 7, nor would God have allowed him to. When the exceptions and situation ethics appended by man are allowed to be mixed with these teachings of the Bible, God’s word is blasphemed. "Let God be true." In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul again writes concerning marriage:

10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:

11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

The instruction of these verses is given, not as an option or suggestion of the ideal, but as a clear command of the Lord. If one is divorced, it is a command of the Lord that the person either "remain unmarried, or be reconciled." The command is the same regardless of guilt or innocence. Evidently, the things Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 7 was in response to questions that had been asked. Thus, his remark in verse 1, "Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me." Probably some had recognized the difficulty, hindrance, and distraction from spiritual things, presented by marriage to an unbeliever and were prompted to ask about it. Verses 12-13 say:

12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

Some have taken occasion with Paul’s comment here, "to the rest speak I, not the Lord," to set these verses aside as having no authority. We cannot do that. While these verses are not direct commands from the mouth of Jesus in the sense that the two previous verses were, they are still the inspired words of God and are profitable for doctrine, reproof, and correction (2 Timothy 3:16). Believers already married to an unbeliever are to stay together if at all possible. They are as obligated in their marriage as if they were married to a believer. Verses 2-5 still apply. Due benevolence is to be rendered and love, respect, and submission are still in order. Verse 14 says:

For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

The unbeliever shares in the blessings of the believer. Health, wealth, or whatever blessings God pours out upon the believer will benefit the unbelieving spouse. The unbeliever is more likely to be exposed to the teachings of the Bible while married to the believer. The believer may pray many a prayer for him or her. The unbeliever’s body may be controlled, to his/her own good, by the believing spouse, as taught in verse 4. The subject continues in verse 15:

But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

The so-called "Pauline Privilege" that some imagine in this verse is a lie. If the unbelieving depart—If the believer cannot prevent the departure, he/she is no longer in bondage to render benevolence, to defraud not, or to be in subjection, as one would otherwise be. The statement that "a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases" does not mean that the one deserted is now free to remarry. The deserted believer is free from obligation to the one who departed but not free to marry another. Verse 39 makes that perfectly clear:

The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.

Three verses in 1 Corinthians 7 are commonly taken out of context to, in effect, neutralize, contradict, or compromise the plain teaching of the rest of the chapter. Those are verses 17, 20, and 24. Those verses within their context say:

17 But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches.

18 Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised.

19 Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.

20 Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called.

21 Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather.

22 For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord’s freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ’s servant.

23 Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.

24 Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.

Verse 17 may have application to those verses preceding it in that when God saves a person who is married to an unbeliever, that person is to continue in that relationship. Some good Baptist pastors will agree that divorce and remarriage is continual adultery but then use verses 17, 20, and 24 to say that since it has already happened it is okay, just don’t do it again. That is bad advice. To presume such interpretation of those verses by taking them out of the context is blasphemy of God’s word. God does not call persons to continue in sin. God calls us out of darkness into light. These verses do not mean that it is okay to continue in adultery if one is living in adultery when God calls him any more than they excuse continuing in fornication, thievery, drunkenness, prostitution, or lewdness. What if someone claims that God has saved him/her, but the person’s way of making a living or supporting his/her family is striptease, prostitution, or theft? Shall we quote the scripture, "as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk" and say that it is acceptable? What about when a "same sex marriage" couple makes a profession of faith and presents themselves for baptism and membership in our church? Shall we say, "As the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk"? Let us be consistent! James 1:8 says, "A double minded man is unstable in all his ways." God does not call anyone to live in sin. 1 Peter 2:9 says:

But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvelous light:

When God calls a person to salvation He calls him "out of darkness" not to abide in darkness, nor to walk in darkness. Ephesians 2:10 says:

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.

There is to be a visible difference in those who are "created in Christ Jesus unto good works." Read Ephesians 4:17-30:

17 This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind,

18 Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:

19 Who being past feeling have given themselves over unto lasciviousness, to work all uncleanness with greediness.

20 But ye have not so learned Christ;

21 If so be that ye have heard him, and have been taught by him, as the truth is in Jesus:

22 That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;

23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;

24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.

25 Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbor: for we are members one of another.

26 Be ye angry and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:

27 Neither give place to the devil.

28 Let him that stole steal no more: but rather let him labour, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth.

29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.

30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.

After salvation, we are to "henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk" (v. 17). The laws of the land may say it is legal to divorce and remarry but, in the Bible, Jesus, John, and Paul have declared that "it is not lawful." "We ought to obey God rather than men" (Acts 5:29). In Luke 16:17-18 Jesus said:

17 And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail.

18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, commiteth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.

We are to "put off concerning the former conversation the old man" and "put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness" (Ephesians 4:22-24). "Let him that stole steal no more" (Ephesians 4:28). Let her that lived in adultery live in adultery no more. It must surely grieve the Holy Spirit of God (v. 30) for persons professing salvation to live and walk in the darkness of adultery. How much more grievous it must surely be that the Lord’s churches and pastors partake of the evil deed and rather than rebuke it, excuse it with "Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God." In Matthew 5:19, in the same "Sermon on the Mount" wherein Jesus also preached on divorce/remarriage/adultery, He said:

Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.

Clearly, it is against Jesus’ command for a divorced person to remarry or to "be married to another" (Mark 10:12) while the previous spouse is alive. I know that there is much ignorance about what the Bible says about this subject in the world today, but those of us who know the truth have a great responsibility that our teaching and practice be consistent with truth. "For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required" (Luke 12:48). In John 14:23 Jesus said, "If a man love me, he will keep my words." Having said so much about what 1 Corinthians 7:17, 20, and 24 does not mean, let us go back and consider what the verses do mean. When we look at those verses in context we can easily see that what is being talked about is "circumcision" and "uncircumcision" and being a "servant" or "freeman." Those are things a New Testament Christian is at liberty to "wherein he is called, therein abide with God." As verse 19 says, circumcision and uncircumcision is nothing, but "the keeping of the commandments of God" is something. It is something serious and a child of God is never at liberty to not keep the commandments of God.

Some have pointed to the divorces commanded in Ezra 9 and 10 as justification for divorcing an unbeliever so they might marry another with the excuse that they can better serve God in a happy marriage with a believer. Such presumption ignores two obvious facts. First, in that case divorce was commanded but remarriage was not. It is wrong to assume that remarriage was permitted. Secondly, the presumption contradicts the clear teachings of 1 Corinthians 7:10-13 as well as the many others we have discussed. No one can serve God better by disobedience.

CHAPTER TEN

GO AND SIN NO MORE

In John 8:1-11, a woman guilty of adultery was brought to Jesus. He instructed her, "Go and sin no more." Simple as that! That is good instruction for any new convert. The woman in John 8 did not seek Jesus. It was not her idea to go to Him. She was brought to Him. Her accusers brought her to Jesus quoting the law of Moses. In this we see a picture of "the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ" (Galatians 3:24). Jesus who came not to condemn but to save (John 3:17) said "neither do I condemn thee: go and sin no more." It is obvious that if the woman taken in adultery was obedient to Jesus after her conversion, she did not continue to commit that sin. Jesus has commissioned His churches to teach those He saves "to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you" (Matthew 28:20). Churches that neglect the obligation to declare the whole counsel of God are disobedient to our Lord and neglect a duty upon which their perpetuity is conditioned. Those who are taught the Lord’s commands and choose not to follow are guilty of presumptuous sin. With His own blood, Jesus paid for the sins of His people. "If we sin willfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth," presuming upon Christ’s sacrifice for our sins, we tread under foot the Son of God, count His blood an unholy thing, and do despite unto the Spirit of grace (Hebrews 10:26-31). A modern notion has evolved wherein it is thought that if we can get someone to "come to the front" claiming to be sorry for his or her sins or submit to baptism that that is repentance. Repentance is not just admitting guilt and expressing sorrow over one’s sins. Teaching men so, or allowing them to think it, is deceitful. Repentance involves turning from that which is repented of and going in a different direction. Just seeking a fire escape from hell is not repentance. Repentance is not a plea bargain agreement. When a thief repents of stealing, he quits stealing. When a fornicator repents of fornication, she quits fornicating. When one repents of living in continual adultery because of being twice married, he discontinues the adulterous marriage. Repentance is not something a person does to "get saved," it is something that God causes to happen because of salvation. I have been told that if a person comes up front and professes that God has saved him, none of us can judge whether the person has truly repented. It is a terrible pity if we can’t! John required "fruits meet for repentance" before he would administer baptism (Matthew 3:8). A church has the obligation of judging in certain matters among the members. How can we be so blind as to think that just because God saved someone that sin is no longer sin? The adultery of divorce/remarriage is just as sinful for the saved person as it is for the lost. Sin does not cease to be sin just because someone has been saved. There are lost sinners and there are saved sinners. Sin is as wrong for me now as it was before I was saved. There are certain ways of life that are to accompany salvation. There are certain ways of life that are to be cast off because we are called out of darkness and into light. I do not know of any example in the Bible of Jesus instructing anyone to follow Him or serve Him in disobedience, regardless of circumstance. If Jesus is not first in our life we cannot be His disciples. In Luke 14:26-27, Jesus said:

26 If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.

27 And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple.

When God saves a person, that person’s repentance must surely involve a desire and intention to forsake all known sin. One’s baptism is, in part, a declaration of dying to sin and rising to walk in newness of life (Romans 6). Through teaching and learning a born-again believer will grow in grace and knowledge. In this process of maturing the disciple of Christ will learn of sin that yet exists in his life. It is as important that those newly revealed sins be confessed and forsaken as were those when we first began to follow Christ. The Bible has nothing good to say about those who start out to follow the Lord and then turn back. One does not continue to follow the Lord if he does not continue following where He leads. We cannot take another trail and catch up with Him farther along the way. Those who "resist the truth . . . they shall proceed no further" (2 Timothy 3:8-9).

In regard to the subject of divorce and remarriage being adultery, the question has been asked, "What about one who was sexually involved with someone else before marriage and later married someone else? Are they living in adultery?" The simple answer is this: Fornication does not constitute adultery. The confusion manifest in this question probably results in part from the teachings of those who blur the distinction between adultery and fornication, attempting to justify an "innocent party" exception. There is a joining of two when fornication is committed, but it is not such a joining as is marriage. Marriage is instituted by God and is honorable. Fornication is forbidden by God and the Bible instructs us to "Flee fornication." Scriptural marriage is what "God hath joined together." Of fornication, or being "joined to an harlot," the Bible says, "God forbid." Of scriptural marriage, "let not man put asunder" (Matthew 19:6). Of fornication, we are commanded to "flee" (1 Corinthians 6:18) and "abstain from" (1 Thessalonians 4:3). Read 1 Corinthians 6:15-20:

15 Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.

16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.

17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.

18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.

Fornication is a sin that, because it perverts the natural use of a body, pollutes and defiles it, dishonors it, and may result in many physical and emotional consequences (verse 18). God did not create mankind to live as animals. He instituted marriage for humans. Fornication is never honorable and is not lawful in God’s sight. The Bible never advises one to walk therein. God did not create mankind to divorce and remarry either, and it is not lawful in God’s sight. It is a perversion of what God intended. Proverbs 28:13 says:

He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.

Repentance includes both confessing and forsaking. When a saved person confesses and forsakes the sin of fornication, God will forgive him or her and we should too. Such a one can be lawfully married.

Marriage, by its very nature, is conceived in the vowing of vows. However formal or informal an act we may be willing to recognize as marriage it will have been wrought with the making of vows. The seriousness of making a vow is seen in Numbers 30:2, Deuteronomy 23:21, and Ecclesiastes 5:4-6. Ecclesiastes 5:4-6 says:

4 When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed.

5 Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay.

6 Suffer not thy mouth to cause thy flesh to sin; neither say thou before the angel, that it was an error: wherefore should God be angry at thy voice, and destroy the work of thine hands?

In Judges 11:30-35 the account of Jephthah and his daughter demonstrates the seriousness of a vow. Jonah recognized the necessity of honoring a vow (Jonah 2:9). In Acts 5:1-10 the account of Ananias and Sapphira provides us with a New Testament example of the importance of keeping a vow. When one makes a vow before God and man "until death do we part" it is a very serious matter. Romans 1:31-32 lists "covenantbreakers" as "worthy of death."

CHAPTER ELEVEN

THE RESPONSIBILITY OF A CHURCH

We recognize the nation Israel, God’s chosen nation, to be a typological picture of Jesus’ churches. God made it clear that His chosen nation, Israel, was to be different from the other nations. He gave them the responsibility of enforcing His laws and so we read His instructions to them such as the often- repeated phrases like "ye shall stone them with stones that they die" and "so shalt thou put evil away from among you." Jesus has given His churches the responsibility of enforcing His laws (not in a national or civil capacity, but within its own body) and thus we have such New Testament instructions as "Purge out therefore the old leaven" (1 Corinthians 5:7) and "put away from among yourselves that wicked person" (1 Corinthians 5:13). The nation Israel was to be different from the rest of the world and Baptist churches are to be different from the rest of the world. Read 1 Corinthians 5:

1 It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father’s wife.

2 And ye are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he that hath done this deed might be taken away from among you.

3 For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him that hath so done this deed,

4 In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ,

5 To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.

6 Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?

7 Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our Passover is sacrificed for us:

8 Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.

9 I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:

10 Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world.

11 But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.

12 For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within?

13 But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person.

This chapter (1 Corinthians 5) deals with the penal or judiciary aspect of church discipline. There are personal offenses which are to be dealt with according to Matthew 18, and public offenses that are to be dealt with as here in 1 Corinthians 5, something that is "reported commonly" (verse 5). Discipline, rightly defined, firstly involves the teaching and instructing of what is right and wrong. Human nature, being what it is, makes it necessary that there be consequences prescribed and dispensed when that which is taught is not obeyed. The giving of a commission to the Lord’s churches to teach those they baptize implies the giving of the authority and responsibility to judge and correctively discipline its members. Many undesirable situations could be avoided if Baptist church members were being washed by the word. Ephesians 5:25-27 says:

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

26 That he might sanctify it and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

But, you can’t get washed if you don’t get around the water. Forsaking the assembling of ourselves together regularly to study God’s word is a serious offense. When church members only attend at some interval they have learned they can get by with and still retain membership, they mock and dishonor God, and the churches that allow it are even more guilty. It is the churches that have been charged with the responsibility to teach them.

In 1 Corinthians 5, Paul wrote to the church at Corinth, "It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you." In verse 9 Paul said, "I wrote to you in an epistle not to company with fornicators." That instruction had been ignored, and now look what it led to! They had become puffed up in their supposed "love" while rejecting the obligation to practice according to truth. As a result they now had a case of "such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles." That church had neglected its duty to judge itself and now it was being judged by the world. When a church neglects its duty to "judge them that are within" (v. 12) it invites the criticism of the world and dishonors our Lord. All churches I have been in that practiced scriptural corrective discipline rightly referred to 1 Corinthians 5 as instruction toward corrective discipline in cases of public offense. The first part of the chapter deals with a particular case but the rest of the chapter lists other offenses that are to be dealt with in like manner. The same principles apply in the other offenses. It is generally agreed that the teachings of the chapter apply to cases of adultery as well as the listed offenses of fornication, covetousness, extortion, idolatry, railing, and drunkenness. Theft is not listed there but common sense should tell us that it should be dealt with as seriously as covetousness. Surely adultery should be dealt with as seriously as with fornication. The instructions to "purge out," "not to company with," "with such an one no not to eat," and "put away from among yourselves that wicked person" clearly are in reference to church membership and the Lord’s Supper. Verses 10 and 12 show that to be the case.

The world’s churches often regard church discipline as "mean spirited" or unloving, but such is not the case. Generally, those who practice discipline, and always those who practice scriptural church discipline, will be found to be the most loving, most holy, and most spiritual. Its purpose is not vengeance. "Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord" (Romans 12:19). Our first reason for the practice of scriptural church discipline is that we might give glory to God. When His churches neglect to judge themselves and are judged by the world, God is dishonored. Secondly, it is for the purification of the church as a body. A true church is a body of believers espoused to Jesus as His bride to be. Will Jesus marry an adulterous bride? A church is not a building and it is not a denomination. A true church consists of scripturally baptized believers and when something exists in the lives of those members it exists in that church. If there is adultery in the lives of the members there is adultery in the church. Verses 10 and 11 of 1 Corinthians 5 also include idolatry. If there is idolatry in the lives of the members there is idolatry in the church. Participation in the pagan "religious holidays" is idolatry and for those espoused to be in Christ’s bride it is spiritual fornication. When those who know better condone the sin of the weaker members by allowing it to continue, they share in the guilt. I do not believe Jesus will marry a physically adulterous nor spiritually fornicating bride. Thirdly, corrective church discipline is for the teaching and edification of all the members. 1 Timothy 5: 20-22 says:

20 Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.

21 I charge thee before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, and the elect angels, that thou observe these things without preferring one before another, doing nothing by partiality.

22 Lay hands suddenly on no man, neither be partaker of other men’s sins: keep thyself pure.

Those that sin are to be rebuked "before all, that others also may fear." The instruction to "Lay hands suddenly on no man" is commonly understood as referring to the ordination of a brother to preach, pastor, or be a deacon. If it has any connection to the two previous verses it seems probable that it applies both to approval and to censure. I believe verse 22 has even broader application. It must surely apply, at least in principle, to the acceptance and censure, or rejection, of any Baptist church member. "Neither be partaker of other men’s sins: keep thyself pure." At the conclusion of the chapter titled "Church Discipline" in the book Definitions of Doctrine, vol. III, C.D. Cole wrote:

And as members of the same body of Christ we are tied together and belong to each other and are responsible for one another. What I do, not only as your pastor, but as a member, is of importance to every one of you. And we should not see one another sin and do nothing about it.

Fourthly, it is for the good of the one in error. 1 Corinthians 5:5 shows that the goal is "that the spirit may be saved." How can we claim to love someone and yet neglect to do that which God tells us is for his spiritual good? Excuse is sometimes made for the neglect of church discipline or teaching all the truth on the pretense of love. Love can be of the wrong kind and for the wrong reasons. It is often advertised that, "friends don’t let friends drive drunk." Should it not also be said that a church practicing godly love will not allow fellow members to continue in a life-style with which the Bible says, "they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God"? A "love" that causes us to teach someone the ways of darkness rather than truth is more akin to the "love" of a rapist for his victim than to a love that is of God.

It is important that church discipline be practiced impartially and consistently. Any decent church would exclude me for adultery if I were known to be unfaithful to my wife and failed to confess and forsake that sin. It has been shown that the entire New Testament consistently declares that divorce and remarriage while a previous spouse is still living is adultery and continues to be adultery until the previous marriage ends in death. Do we have any justification for considering one adultery "black" and the other "white" as some may try to differentiate between a "little white lie" and a "big black lie"? It is neither impartial nor consistent to rebuke one and harbor the other. Divorce and remarriage is just as much adultery as abortion is murder. We were instructed in 1 Corinthians 5, "with such an one no not to eat." In 1 Corinthians 11:27-32 the following is said about the observance of the Lord’s Supper:

27 Therefore whosoever shall eat this bread, and drink this cup of the Lord, unworthily, shall be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord.

28 But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of that bread, and drink of that cup.

29 For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord’s body.

30 For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep.

31 For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged.

32 But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world.

Those who presumptuously partake of the Lord’s Supper refusing or neglecting to repent of (confess and forsake) their works of darkness "eateth and drinketh unworthily." He that does so "eateth and drinketh damnation to himself." Churches that refuse or neglect to examine and judge themselves and purge out the leaven eat and drink damnation (judgment) to their church. When a church is aware of gross public sin such as adultery or fornication among its membership the matter must be dealt with in a scriptural manner and resolved before it observes the Lord’s Supper. If it does not it eats and drinks damnation to itself, not discerning the Lord’s body. It causes the church to be judged by the world and it will